January sure made up for the mild start to the winter. As the month closes off, we can bask in the warmth of the chinook that will tease you with spring – winter has a cruel sense of humour. Having been dis-owned by my dog for dragging her along on a few cold weather walks, she has since forgiven me, and willing to trust that the walk will be enjoyable once again.
Although my dog’s memory seems to be short and can’t remember the offence of the cold, us humans seem to find it hard to let go of the icy grasp of unforgiveness. Re-extending the hand of trust is a challenge as the fear of old hurts paralyze us. Holding onto past offence hinders us from experiencing the fullness of what life has to offer. The beauty of community is that we don’t have to walk this path alone. Allowing others into our places of vulnerability can bring healing.
As you work and live within your community, hopefully you can take a lesson from your pooch, and forget the offence of yesterday, living fully in the present moment and wag your tail in anticipation of tomorrow, (with a nap in between of course). Enjoy this month and celebrate the relationships you have.
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From my family to yours,
Lowell Harder