We live in a time of war. The war is against an unseen enemy; against beings that can take our lives, or leave us with physical debilitations. The war is not against any other human being; it is against a very nasty flu virus.
I am privileged to live among people who recognize the virulence of this enemy and care about my welfare. The people on my street, in my village, in my province and in the country of Canada are vigilant in their efforts to restrict the spread of this virus and also to promote well-being for my whole person, body, emotions, mind and spirit.
Many opportunities for meeting together are not allowed at this time. Yet social isolation is damaging to the emotions, mind and spirit. People who have the responsibility for creating guidelines and legislations spend much time and careful thought before making their decisions public. The officials we have chosen to do this work for us juggle the basic needs of us all. Imperfect human beings will not create a perfect solution, but it will be carefully planned. Some officials may act irresponsibly and disappoint us, but they are few compared to those who take their responsibilities seriously. The few leaders who do act irresponsibly may not have many votes at the next election.
Elected officials who make decisions on our behalf are not the only leaders in our society. Every one of us is a leader and every one of us is a follower. A good follower makes a good leader.
I am grateful that social gatherings are restricted. The physical well-being of so many people is improved. We are resilient, resourceful people who find other ways to communicate.
I am grateful that elected officials recognize my need for human interaction. Even if I live alone I can meet with a close friend or relative, and if I usually attend church I have the privilege of meeting others there as long as our numbers remain within fifteen per cent of the fire code, we wear a mask, use sanitizer, and our families keep six feet apart. The restrictions are inconvenient and cumbersome, but my basic need for human companionship is met.
Opinions differ amongst a varied population and conflict is a constant challenge to work through. How can we work through a difference of opinion creatively instead of destructively? Certainly when I am challenged I feel threatened and defensive. How do I deal with these feelings? How easy it is for us to battle against one another! But, right now, the enemy is the coronavirus and not my neighbour. Quietly, consistently, taking the actions needed to combat this enemy will do more to convince my neighbour than confrontation, resentment, or harmful gossip.
We are at war against the coronavirus. The best way to fight is to focus on the real problem and avoid distractions.
by Andrea Kidd
